Thursday, February 14, 2019

Finding your tribe but not losing sight of things beyond

SEEING BEYOND CREATING PEACE AND JOY

What to the letters below spell?

N O R M A L


Well you probably  figured  that one out pretty  quick right?

These  letters spell 

Moral
Ram
Am 
Nor
Or
Oral
Loan
……and ON and a few more

Oh you thought  I meant what?  If you used all the letters right in a row?  Well sometimes life  gives you  a lot of parts that  line up one  way one time and  yet  you can make choices  to hep yourself or someone else by taking those things and lining them up in a different  way right?  

Also  what if i  had added an S  after the L above?  Would  you  have  imagined I was  talking about some group of people who fall somewhere  in the center of the spectrum of our  agreed  upon culture?  …well maybe..and look at  how many more words  the letters could spell then!

Like 
SOAR  which is what we all can do if we avoid the  trap of thinking all the letters had to belong to one and only one word.  Unfortunately we do it all the time  with religion,gender, disability, politics, wealth… and all kinds of other dualistic notions that there is  somehow a unified them and us.  Yes we have tribes who share some of our values and other  characteristics… but if I  had asked  you to identify the “best word”  in the list made up from the  letters… I doubt  there would be widespread agreement.  However, I felt no need to ask and felt no need to  compare —because  as http://www.sethsblog.com (I think that’s where  you find Seth Godin’s  blog) reminds us when we do tribal comparisons we tend to  compare the best in our tribe with the worst of the other tribe.  In the end this highlights divisions and  keeps us from seeing beyond  our current notions and pretty much  makes it  rare that we  value the differences that  could be combined to make more positive  things possible.

Well summing this all up…let your mind go beyond the expected or “normal” so  to speak and maybe you can discover  new combinations that bring  all types of  peace and joy.


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